Cata said 'Tap Into My Chi'

When Cata said 'Tap into my Chi', I didn't realize how much it would affect me. These four words from a song, this one line; it changed my life.

What is Chi? In its literal translation, it is 'breath' or 'air'. Simply put. Chi is life. It is that which gives life. However, Chi is more than the physical body. Chi influences both our emotions and cognitions too. Unbalanced Chi causes distress. Balanced Chi causes your emotions to become smooth. When mental Chi is refined, it causes creativity, not only in art or business, but in child rearing and relationships. It is that natural energy that each living being has. Our goal, as humans, is to manage our Chi flow in our homes and around us in such a way that there is a good flow of Chi in our bodies. Thus, we want to avoid the Chi flow that is aggressive, attacking, low or depressive (Energy Arts, 2014; Tchi, 2014).

So, why am I telling you all of this you might not have an interest in? It's simple. Whether you call it Chi or vital energy, it's important to know that you have the power to influence this energy simply by deciding who you have around you. Not everyone has pure intentions. For women especially, it is important to know how men can influence our Chi.

We allow men to tap into our hearts.
We allow men to tap into our minds.
We allow men to tap into our bodies.
We allow men to tap into those places we are not supposed to give to just anyone.

We allow men to tap into our deep, dark desires, as well as our inner most needs. We allow men to tap into that that we yearn and long for. We open our minds, our hearts and our bodies to them. But then, they leave, they mess up, they break our hearts, we become caught up, allow them to use us to our hearts content; the rapture of passion and ecstasy, and then? What happens then? Messed up energy. Unbalanced Chi. Distress. Heartache. Heartbreak. Negative energy. Imbalance. Chaos.

Cata said 'Tap into my Chi. And I didn't realize that his words would open not only my mind, heart and body, but my eyes and my entire being too.

I think as women, we are too quick to give of ourselves. We give our love freely. We give our flesh as though it belonged to others. We give our hearts away and every time it's broken, it's a piece we will never receive again.

We are too quick to allow men to tap into our bodies. And in the process, allow them to cause us distress. We allow not only men, all those other people who come into our worlds, into our homes, to cause an imbalance and disrupt our creativity, our relationships, our healthy balance of energy that we try so hard to maintain.

I am making a plea. To women. To men. To children. To husbands and wives. To fathers and mothers. To our youth. Be careful who you let into your world. Be careful who you allow into your space. Be cautious about who you give your hearts to. Be vigilant of who you share your minds with. Be wary of who you give your bodies too. Because people come into our lives and we hope they will be of value. Yet, they so often destroy what we try to build; the balance we try to maintain.

Have you met someone who wants to tap into your Chi? Someone who wants to explore your inner mysteries but also keep it sacred? Have you met someone who tried to bring out the best in you, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically and physically? Have you met someone whose aim was to only bring about a balance in your Chi flow and multiply those smooth, good emotions?

Seek that. Only that. No negativity. No selfish desires or needs. Only positivity.

Cata said 'Tap into my Chi', not tap into my body. Seek first the energy that is life and breathe, before you lose your breathe in a meaningless night of passion with a man or woman who has no intention of making you feel worthy.

Seek first life before you tell another you would die for them.

Seek first your life. Your energy. Your vitality. Your positivity.

Cata said 'Tap into my Chi'.

Seek that from yourself and others.

Seek that.


Take Care.

Miss Stone


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