Shine a lil' light...

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Last night I spent time with an old friend. I have known her for more than 21 years.
I still remember the first day I met her. I was sitting on the steps at our Pre-School. It was our first day of school and I felt alone, sad and so overwhelmed. I did not know anyone and was too afraid to speak to any of the other kids. Then, out of nowhere, this fair skinned girl with long straight hair walked up to me and introduced herself. And so, the beginning of a life-long friendship started.
On windy days, we would go all Mary Poppins on each other and jump from the steps with an open umbrella. Luckily, for both of us, we managed to escape unscathed every time. We owned the playground with our daily adventures. We just had so much energy. We had even more love for each other. From sleep overs (which did not start off well because I was always home sick, lol) to play dates, we did it all. We were each other’s light, constantly lighting the way for each other when our own lights were a bit dim. From the age of 6, she helped me see the good in the world.
So, there we were last night, as two 27 year olds, different from the two 6 year olds who met each other for the first time 21 years ago. We talked, we laughed, and we shared stories and lessons learned. It felt good. It was comforting to know that no matter how much time had passed between us; we still had the same love, if not more, for each other. It was comforting to know that, no matter how many things happened along the way, what we have did not get lost. It was comforting to know that even through all the changes, our friendship remained that one thing that did not change.
Last night, I was reminded, once again, of the good people there are in the world. Good people like my friend Shadi. When things go wrong or people hurt us, we are quick to point it out. We complain and speak of the evils in this world and how cruel human beings can be to one another. We sit and wallow in misery and self-pity when we have been betrayed by someone close to us. But, there is one thing we do not do as much as we should. We forget to be grateful and appreciate those who constantly treat us well. We forget to focus on the positives.
Last night, my eyes saw the goodness of world in the laughter of my friend and all my other friends who were with me. I saw the goodness in the world because I realized I had people around me who love and care for me, people who want only what is best for me.
We are often reminded of the beauty in the world through certain people. Their light shines so bright that it is impossible not to see it. Their light shines so bright that you can’t help but forget that darkness ever existed.  The light shines so bright that it re-ignites your flame. And last night, I thought back to the 6 year old little girls we once were, and I saw that nothing had changed. We still lit each other’s paths in a way only we knew how to. And without even trying to, Shadi showed me again, that there still are good people in the world.
Look around you today and see the goodness in others. When your light is dim, seek theirs to help show you the way. I can guarantee this: There are many good people who would not mind shining a little of their light onto you.

Thank you for lighting my way Sha, even in the moments you did not realize.

Take Care

Miss Stone

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